I have a Flickr account. I use it as a backup in case the Mac, external drive and NAS drive fail, basically in case the house burns down. I've uploaded historical family photos and more recent holiday photos - over 7,000 images.
I've previously set the privacy settings on these photos to be public. There's nothing I've uploaded that I'm not happy with anyone seeing.
Dave has recently started scanning photos from our pre-digital albums and I've been storing these on Flickr too.
There was some pictures of us at the beach from 20 years ago so I just checked with Dave that he was happy with the public privacy setting. He wasn't. In fact he wasn't happy with any photos I'd uploaded being publicly available.
I checked this statement. Even landscapes and pictures of buildings? Yes, even those.
These are our photos, they aren't mine or his. So I've felt that I've had to change the access to these photos; all of them.
I'm not happy. I think it's an overreaction. But I can't think of a way around it that keeps us both happy.